Guide指南

How to prepare for a BaZi or Feng Shui consultation如何准备命理与风水咨询

Which service suits your question, what to ask when you book, and what to bring on the day.

哪种服务适合你的问题、预约时可以问什么,以及当天需要准备什么。

By Ben Yeo, Founder & Principal Consultant · Updated October 2026作者:Ben Yeo,创办人暨首席顾问 · 2026 年 10 月更新

A BaZi, Zi Wei Dou Shu or Feng Shui consultation is a personal conversation, and a little preparation goes a long way. This guide covers which service suits your question, what to ask when you book, what to bring, and how to get the most out of the time.

八字、紫微斗数或风水咨询,是一场很个人的对话,事先做点准备,收获会大很多。这份指南说明哪种服务适合你的问题、预约时可以问什么、需要准备什么,以及如何善用咨询时间。

BaZi, Zi Wei Dou Shu or Feng Shui: which suits your question?八字、紫微斗数还是风水?

  • BaZi (八字) reads your nature through the balance of the five elements, and the timing of your luck cycles.
  • Zi Wei Dou Shu (紫微斗数) maps your life area by area: career, wealth, relationships, family, and how they affect one another.
  • Feng Shui (风水) looks at the space you live or work in: its facing, layout and surroundings.
  • 八字从五行的平衡看你的本性,以及大运的时机。
  • 紫微斗数把人生分成各个方面来看:事业、财帛、感情、家庭,以及彼此如何牵动。
  • 风水看的是你居住或工作的空间:坐向、格局与周边环境。

For questions about yourself, your direction or your timing, a chart reading is the place to start. Reading BaZi and Zi Wei Dou Shu together gives a fuller picture than either alone. For a new home, a renovation or a property decision, Feng Shui is the service to look at.

如果想了解自己、方向或时机,从命盘解读开始最合适;八字与紫微斗数合参,比单看一套更全面。如果是新居、装修或房产决定,就该考虑风水服务。

Useful questions to ask when you book预约时可以问的问题

Every practitioner works a little differently, so it helps to know what to expect before the day.

每位老师的做法都略有不同,事先了解清楚,当天会更安心。

  • What is included, and how long is the session?
  • Which language will the session be in?
  • Is it in person or online, and where?
  • What do I need to prepare beforehand?
  • Are there any optional extras, and what do they cost?
  • Can I ask questions afterwards?
  • 费用包括哪些内容?咨询时间多长?
  • 咨询用什么语言进行?
  • 是面谈还是线上?地点在哪里?
  • 事前需要准备什么?
  • 有没有可选的额外服务?费用多少?
  • 咨询后还可以提问吗?

What to prepare for a chart reading命盘解读需要准备什么

  • Your exact birth time, the clock time on your birth certificate. The hour changes a quarter of your chart, so it's worth checking.
  • Your place of birth, especially if you were born outside Singapore or Malaysia.
  • Two or three questions you most want to understand. They help the session focus on what matters to you.
  • Some background, if you'd like. It isn't required, but some people share a decision they're weighing or what they've been going through, so the reading can take in a fuller picture.
  • 准确的出生时间,以出生证明上的钟表时间为准。时辰会改变四分之一的命盘,值得先确认。
  • 出生地,尤其是在新马以外出生的人。
  • 两三个你最想弄清楚的问题,让咨询聚焦在你最在乎的事。
  • 一些背景(自愿)。这并非必须,但有些人会分享正在考虑的决定或近来的经历,让解读能看到更完整的画面。

What to prepare for a Feng Shui consultation风水咨询需要准备什么

  • The property address and type, and a floor plan if you have one.
  • Birth details of the people living there, if they're happy to share them. A home is read together with its occupants.
  • Your plans, such as a renovation timeline or a move-in date.
  • 房屋地址与类型,以及平面图(如有)。
  • 家庭成员的出生资料(如他们愿意提供)。房子要连同住的人一起看。
  • 你的计划,例如装修时间表或入住日期。

Already living in the home? I often suggest trying the simple things first, such as a clear entrance, working lights and taps, and open windows. For some people, a few weeks of that is enough. If it isn't, that's when an audit helps.

已经住在家里?我常建议先从小事做起,例如整理门口、修好灯和水龙头、打开窗户。对一些人来说,几个星期就已足够;若仍不见改善,再安排勘察。

Getting the most out of the session如何善用咨询时间

  • Take notes. A lot is covered, and your notes will be useful later.
  • Ask when something is unclear. A good reading is a conversation, and there are no silly questions.
  • Listen for strengths as well as challenges. Every chart has both, and both are useful to know.
  • Give it time to settle. Some insights make more sense days or weeks later.
  • 做笔记。内容很多,笔记日后会很有用。
  • 有不明白的就问。好的解读是一场对话,没有所谓的蠢问题。
  • 长处与挑战都要听。每个命盘都两者兼有,两者都值得知道。
  • 给自己一点时间消化。有些体会,要过几天甚至几周才更明白。

A chart describes tendencies and timing. The choices you make with that understanding remain your own.

命盘描述的是倾向与时机,如何运用这份理解,选择始终在你手中。

Common questions常见问题

Do I need to know my exact birth time?一定要知道准确的出生时间吗?
It matters a great deal, since the hour changes a quarter of your chart. Check your birth certificate first. If it isn't available, ask the practitioner before booking whether a reading is still possible.
非常重要,因为时辰会改变四分之一的命盘。请先查看出生证明;如无法确定,预约前先询问顾问是否仍可解读。
Should I tell the practitioner about my situation beforehand?事前要告诉顾问我的情况吗?
It isn't required. With me, you're welcome to come with just your birth details and your questions. Some clients choose to share some background, such as a decision they're weighing or what they've been going through, because it helps me see a fuller picture and focus the session. Share as much or as little as you're comfortable with.
不是必须的。来找我的话,只带出生资料和你的问题也完全可以。有些客户会选择分享一些背景,例如正在考虑的决定或近来的经历,因为这能让我看到更完整的画面,咨询也更聚焦。分享多少,由你自在决定。
Can I bring someone with me?可以带人陪同吗?
You may bring one companion, or at most two. The session is centred on you: companions are welcome to listen, but the time is kept for your chart and your questions. Where possible, I'd suggest coming on your own, as parts of a reading can be personal or sensitive and you may not want others to hear them.
可以带一位陪同者,最多两位。咨询以你为主,陪同者可以旁听,但时间会留给你的命盘与你的问题。如果可以,建议你独自前来,因为解读中有些内容可能比较私人或敏感,你未必希望别人听到。
How often should I have a reading?多久看一次命盘比较好?
A full reading is usually a one-off. Many people return when they reach a crossroads, enter a new 10-year cycle, or want to look at a particular year in more depth. Some of my clients also like to come back once a year: a lot is covered in one session, and a yearly review helps them refresh what matters for the year ahead. That's entirely optional.
完整解读通常一次就够。很多人会在面临抉择、进入新的十年大运,或想深入了解某一年时再回来。也有些客户喜欢每年回来一次:一次咨询内容很多,每年复盘能帮他们重温来年需要留意的地方。这完全是自愿的。

Ready to book?准备好预约了吗?

My Life Chart reads BaZi and Zi Wei Dou Shu together, in about three hours, in person in Singapore.

「我的命盘」把八字与紫微斗数合参,约三小时,在新加坡面谈进行。

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