FAQ
Frequently asked questions
常见问题
Can't find your answer? Send a message — I reply personally.
找不到答案?发个信息给我,我会亲自回复。
Readings命理咨询
What do I need to prepare for a My Life Chart reading?我的命盘需要准备什么?
Your date and time of birth (the clock time on your birth certificate), your gender, and a few questions you'd most like to explore.
出生日期与时间(以出生证明上的钟表时间为准)、性别,以及几件你最想了解的事。
I'm not sure of my exact birth time. Can I still have a reading?我不确定准确的出生时间,还可以看吗?
An accurate birth time is essential — the reading depends on it. Please check your birth certificate or with family first. If an accurate time isn't available, message me before booking so we can discuss whether a reading is possible.
准确的出生时间是必须的,整个解读都以此为基础。请先查看出生证明或向家人确认。如果无法确定,请在预约前先联系我,再讨论是否适合进行解读。
I was told my chart is bad. Can you fix it?有人说我的命不好,可以改吗?
There's nothing to fix. 难盘不是烂盘 — a difficult chart is not a bad chart. It just means a harder road, with its own timing and its own strengths. I don't sell items, and I don't sell miracles. What I do is sit down with you for about three hours and go through your chart properly, so you understand yourself and know how to move with it.
命不需要修。难盘不是烂盘——只是路比较难走,但它有自己的节奏,也有自己的优势。我不卖物品,也不卖奇迹。我会花大约三小时,和你好好把命盘看一遍,让你更了解自己,知道怎么顺势而行。
Can you predict exactly what will happen to me?可以准确预测我会发生什么事吗?
No. A chart shows tendencies and timing — when things are likely to move more easily, and when to be more careful. It doesn't fix events in stone. Your decisions still shape what happens.
不能。命盘显示的是倾向与时机——什么时候比较顺、什么时候要多留意,而不是把事情定死。真正决定结果的,仍是你的选择。
What language are sessions in?咨询用什么语言?
Mainly Mandarin with English alongside, as some terms are clearer in Chinese. A full English explanation is available if you prefer.
以华语为主、英语辅助,因为部分术语用中文更清楚。如有需要,也可全程以英语讲解。
How often should I come back?需要定期回来看吗?
It depends on the person. Most clients come back only when something major comes up, such as a big decision or a change in their life. Some prefer to return every year for an annual Feng Shui update and a look at the year ahead, so they have a clearer guide. Returning clients can book the Existing Client Review (S$288).
因人而异。大部分客户只在人生有重大变化或面对重要决定时才回来。也有客户喜欢每年回来一次,看看当年的风水与流年,心里更有方向。老客户可预约老客户复盘(S$288)。
Can I ask about health?可以问健康方面的问题吗?
Yes. Health is an important part of a chart, and I can point out the years and areas to take extra care of. This is not medical advice — if you are unwell, always see a doctor or medical professional.
可以。健康是命盘中很重要的一环,我可以指出需要特别留意的年份与方面。但这并非医疗意见,身体不适时,请务必寻求医生或专业医疗人员的意见。
Couples & family伴侣与家人
Can you read my partner's chart?可以看我伴侣的命盘吗?
Yes, and couple readings are a big part of what I do. Your partner needs to agree to it and be present for the session.
可以,伴侣合看是我很常做的咨询。对方需要同意,并且亲自出席。
Do you do compatibility readings?有做合盘吗?
Yes, for couples and business partners. For couples, both people need to agree and attend. For business partners, your partner doesn't need to attend.
有,适用于伴侣与生意伙伴。伴侣合盘需双方同意并一同出席;生意伙伴合盘则不需要对方出席。
Can family members sit in?家人可以陪同吗?
Yes, up to two immediate family members, if you're comfortable with it. Some of what we discuss can be personal, so think about what you're happy for them to hear.
可以,最多两位直系家属,前提是你觉得自在。部分内容可能比较私人,请先想清楚是否愿意让他们知道。
Can you read my child's chart?可以看孩子的命盘吗?
Generally, no. A child's path should be allowed to unfold on its own, and I don't believe in shaping it before they can choose for themselves. For a personal reading, the minimum age is 21. By then, a person can decide for themselves whether they are open to it.
For existing clients, I make exceptions when a parent is looking for support with their child. The focus is on understanding, never on predicting or labelling the child:
For existing clients, I make exceptions when a parent is looking for support with their child. The focus is on understanding, never on predicting or labelling the child:
- Strained parent–child relationship — understanding different temperaments, communication styles and expectations
- Very different personalities — relating to a child whose nature feels unlike your own
- Emotional or behavioural difficulties — understanding the child's emotional needs, without labelling them
- Persistent academic struggles — learning preferences, motivation and support at home, not predicting intelligence or results
- Educational direction — interests and possible strengths, especially for older teenagers, without prescribing a career
- Social difficulties or bullying — supporting the child's confidence, boundaries and friendships
- Major family changes — a reflective perspective through divorce, bereavement, relocation or a change in caregiving
- Health concerns — reflecting on stress, routines and wellbeing. I never predict illness, and this does not replace medical advice
一般不看。孩子的路应该让它自然展开,我不认为应该在他们能为自己作主之前去影响它。个人命盘咨询的最低年龄为 21 岁,到那时,他们可以自己决定是否愿意。
对于老客户,如果父母在孩子方面需要支持,我会作例外处理。重点在于理解,绝不预言,也不给孩子贴标签:
对于老客户,如果父母在孩子方面需要支持,我会作例外处理。重点在于理解,绝不预言,也不给孩子贴标签:
- 亲子关系紧张——了解彼此不同的性情、沟通方式与期望
- 性格差异很大——理解一个与你性情很不一样的孩子
- 情绪或行为上的困难——了解孩子的情绪需要,而不是给他贴标签
- 学业长期困难——学习偏好、动力与家庭支持,而不是预测智力或成绩
- 升学方向——兴趣与可能的长处,尤其是年龄较大的青少年,不替孩子决定职业
- 社交困难或被欺凌——如何支持孩子的自信、界限与人际关系
- 家庭重大变化——在离婚、亲人离世、搬迁或照顾者变动时,提供反思的角度
- 健康方面的担忧——反思压力、作息与身心状态。我不预测疾病,也不能取代医疗意见
Can I gift a reading to someone?可以把咨询送给别人吗?
Yes. It's best that the person knows about it and is happy to go ahead. A reading is personal, and not everyone is ready for it at the same time.
可以。但最好先让对方知道并且愿意。看命盘是很私人的事,每个人准备好的时间不一样。
Feng Shui风水
What does a residential Feng Shui audit include?住宅风水勘察包括什么?
An on-site visit with compass measurement, an assessment of the surroundings and the key sectors of your home, a Period 9 review, a marked-up floor plan with placement recommendations, and a written report. See the Feng Shui page for details.
上门罗盘测量、外部环境与住宅重要方位评估、九运气场分析、平面图标注与摆位建议,以及书面报告。详情请看风水页面。
How long is the visit, and when do I get the report?勘察需要多久?什么时候收到报告?
The visit takes about 1 to 2 hours, depending on how much of the surroundings needs to be assessed. Your written report is ready within 2 weeks.
上门勘察约 1 至 2 小时,视需要评估的外部环境而定。书面报告于 2 周内完成。
When is the best time to do Feng Shui?什么时候做风水最好?
Before renovation is ideal. Changes are much easier to make on a floor plan than after the work is done. If you're choosing between properties, Property Selection lets you assess them before you commit.
最理想是在装修之前,在平面图上调整比装修完成后再改容易得多。如果还在选屋,可以先做择宅选屋,再作决定。
Do you need my family's birth details?需要家人的出生资料吗?
Yes, where possible. A home is read together with the people living in it, so the household's birth details help make the recommendations specific to your family.
可以的话,需要。房屋要配合住在里面的人一起看,家人的出生资料能让建议更贴合你的家庭。
Do you work with my interior designer or contractor?会和我的室内设计师或承包商配合吗?
I don't work directly with interior designers or contractors. You'll receive the furniture placement and recommendations in your report, which you can share and discuss with your ID.
我不直接与室内设计师或承包商合作。报告中会附上家具摆位与建议,你可以交给设计师一起讨论。
Why does the price start “from”?为什么价格是“起”?
The fee depends on the property type, size and layout. Larger homes such as executive apartments and landed properties take more time to assess and are quoted accordingly.
费用视房屋类型、面积与格局而定。执行共管公寓、有地住宅等较大单位需要更多时间评估,因此另行报价。
What should I send before the visit?勘察前需要提供什么?
The property address and type, a floor plan if you have one, and the household's birth details.
房屋地址与类型、平面图(如有),以及家人的出生资料。
Booking & approach预约与原则
How do I book?如何预约?
Fill in the enquiry form on the My Life Chart or Feng Shui page, or message me on WhatsApp or Instagram (@qianyimetaphysics). Once we agree a date, your booking is confirmed with a deposit.
在「我的命盘」或风水页面填写咨询表格,或通过 WhatsApp、Instagram(@qianyimetaphysics)联系我。约定日期后,以订金确认预约。
How do I pay, and what if I need to reschedule?如何付款?需要改期怎么办?
A deposit confirms your booking: S$200 for My Life Chart, or 50% of the fee for Feng Shui, by bank transfer to the company account. The balance is paid on the day.
- You can reschedule once, free of charge, with at least 3 days' notice. Your deposit moves to a new date within 3 months.
- With less than 3 days' notice, or if you don't attend, the deposit is forfeited.
- The deposit is non-refundable, but it can be moved once as above.
- If I need to reschedule, you can choose a new date or have your deposit refunded in full.
- If I decline a reading because an accurate birth time isn't available, your deposit is refunded in full.
预约以订金确认:「我的命盘」S$200,风水勘察为费用的 50%,请转账至公司账户。余款于当天付清。
- 提前至少 3 天通知,可免费改期一次,订金转至 3 个月内的新日期。
- 少于 3 天通知或未出席,订金不予退还。
- 订金不可退款,但可按上述方式改期一次。
- 如由我这边需要改期,你可选择新日期,或全额退还订金。
- 如因无法提供准确出生时间而由我婉拒解读,订金全额退还。
Where are chart readings held?命盘咨询在哪里进行?
At a private consultation room in Singapore. The exact location is shared when your booking is confirmed.
在新加坡的私人咨询室进行,确切地点会在确认预约后提供。
Do you do online readings?可以线上咨询吗?
No. All consultations are in person in Singapore. A chart reading runs about three hours, and it works best face to face, where we can go through your chart together and talk things through properly. Feng Shui audits are done on site, because the compass readings and surroundings can only be checked in person.
不可以。所有咨询均在新加坡面对面进行。命盘咨询约三小时,面对面一起看盘、慢慢把事情谈清楚,效果最好。风水勘察需要上门,因为罗盘测量与周边环境只能实地察看。
Is my information kept private?我的资料会保密吗?
Yes. Your details are used only for your consultation. They are never shared or sold, and you can ask for them to be deleted at any time.
会。你的资料只用于咨询,绝不转交或出售,你可随时要求删除。
Will you ask me to buy anything?会推销物品吗?
No. I don't sell any items. Sometimes a Feng Shui recommendation may involve an item, such as a plant, a water feature or a change in lighting. If so, I'll explain what it is and why, and you're free to get it from anywhere you like. I'm not affiliated with any seller.
不会。我不卖任何物品。有时风水建议可能会用到某些物品,例如植物、水景或灯光调整。如有需要,我会说明是什么、为什么,你可以自行在任何地方购买。我与任何商家都没有关联。
Do you teach courses?有开课程吗?
Not at the moment. Each consultation is complete in itself.
目前没有。每一次咨询本身都是完整的。
Do you give talks or workshops?有提供讲座或工作坊吗?
Yes, for companies and groups. Topics and format are tailored to your audience. Send a message or email with what you have in mind.
有,适用于企业与团体,主题与形式按对象量身安排。请把你的想法通过信息或电邮告诉我。
Begin开始
Ready to understand your chart?
准备好认识你的命盘了吗?
Send a message with what you'd like to explore. I reply personally.
发个信息告诉我你想了解什么,我会亲自回复。
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